Understanding crying

Why is my baby crying?

Crying is the most important way your baby communicates. It can sometimes be overwhelming, especially when you don't know exactly what your baby needs. But crying is not a sign that you are doing something wrong. It is the way your little one lets you know they need something.

At We Care Academy, we help you better understand your baby's crying. Not to always stop it, but to respond with more calm and confidence.

What your baby is trying to tell you

Babies cry for various reasons. Sometimes the cause is clear, sometimes not. Common reasons include:

• hunger or thirst
• a wet or dirty nappy
• fatigue or overstimulation
• need for closeness and warmth
• stomach pain or discomfort
• boredom or need for variety
• temperature (too warm or too cold)

Over time, you will learn to recognise your baby's different crying signals better and better. This is a process that takes time and is different for every child.

When crying is a lot

Some babies cry more than others. This can have various causes and it does not mean you are falling short as a parent. Many babies have a peak crying period around six to eight weeks of age, after which it gradually decreases.

If your baby cries a lot and you are worried, it is always good to discuss this with your midwife, maternity care provider, or GP. Sometimes there is a medical cause, but often it is a phase that will pass.

What can help

There is no magic solution that works for every baby. But there are things you can try:

• hold your baby close to you
• rocking or gentle movement
• making soft sounds or singing gently
• creating a calm environment
• skin-to-skin contact
• maintaining a regular rhythm or routine

The most important thing is that your baby feels you are there. You don't always have to stop the crying to be a good parent.

When it becomes too much

Persistent crying can be tough. It is normal to sometimes feel frustrated, helpless, or exhausted. That does not make you a bad parent.

If you notice it is becoming too much, place your baby in a safe spot and take a step back. Ask for help from your partner, family, or a professional. You don't have to do this alone.

Connection through comfort

Every time you respond to your baby's crying, you are building your bond. Your baby learns that they can count on you. That feeling of safety is the foundation for healthy bonding.

At We Care Academy, you will find more information about how to comfort your baby, when to seek help, and how to deal with your little one's crying with more confidence.